I don’t think it’s hard to be yourself. Don’t be afraid to just be yourself. Let people see, the real you and imperfect! Nobody perfect anyhow. Being different is always awesome and it attracts people to you. If they don’t like then let them be. Don’t let people change you or keep defining you and don’t ever also  change who you are only making people like you. Because in fact, they won’t like you! People like to see your personality NOT another personality! you as original, not a copy!  Be yourself is free and be proud of it, you don’t need to pretend to be somebody else. If you have to pretend to be somebody else, ask yourself, what for!? how do you feel about? it’s not comfortable, isn’t it? who do you want to make happy here? yourself or other people? you deserve to be happy first, then other people. Life is not about pleasing other people, right!? Happiness is your choice.